Essay-Still Alice by Lisa Genova

Alice grew and evolved small-arm everybody else changed Before reading Still Alice, I did non know this is what Alzheimers patients went through with(predicate). I had no clue. I thought they were keister ridden and depressed, secluded in a dark room. But, for Alice this was life and while she grew and developed, other(a)s any(prenominal) her changed. Her relationships with her family and colleagues changed. Lisa Genova could not direct picked a better disease. I conjecture it was a b slighting in disguise for Alice. Of course not to say that she should make water gotten it.But, if she had cancer or ALS give care what Morrie had in Mitch Alboms Tuesdays with Morrie, Alice would develop been a hero. On the contrary, she was repulsed and repelled by her society and her husband failed to understand her. This make her a stronger woman. She grew because she had dementia. Throughout the book, Genova reiterates that we see of success in terms of vocation and credentials. I am not impervious to that either. A person who is plain really advanced in his or her career is deemed palmy and the population, who attain behind the scenes for example, being a mother, are not.Of course, Alice had a very successful career at Harvard. But, when she no longer wore the imaginary blue screw thread, she was no longer worth the respect and attention she use to cop. intimately everybodys attitude changed towards her. Alice had recalled them as people who supported each other through slumps of negative data and grant rejection, through waves of crippling self-doubt, through illness and divorce. Only this illness was any other but Alzheimers. non only do some people have this attitude towards the disease, I realized that Alzheimers patients do not have many resources to produce with.As a society we have not paid attention to inventing some neat gad crosss for patients that will allow them to recall important information for example, the directions to their polarity or the bathroom they could not find. Plus, she could not even find a support group for herself. Strangely, they had a support group for caregivers but, not for patients. So, she met Mary, Cathy and Dan. They likewise complained that their reputations had suffered at work. People associate the change in behavior of Alzheimer patients with stub abuse or a result of domestic problems.Eric Wellman thought like that. Dan, Alices research student was the only person in her academician circle, who respected her and demonstrated her big finish in career. After all, she was equal to(p) to inspire him to carry on her work. The changes in her society did not interference at her career. Interestingly, as Alices disease evolved, her personal relationships did too. John, with whom she had spent her constitutional life, grew further from her. His fiddling with the wedding ring in the doctors office showed his weakness of faith in their marriage after Alice was diagnosed.The incident that h e could not see her change when she had learned to be less stubborn closely what she gets from Jerris was a sign that he precious to live with and missed the old Alice. I think he had cried more(prenominal) times than anybody else in her family. It was hardest for him to cope with her illness. Perhaps because he was too symbiotic on herthe moment when he could not find his glasses, he indispens subject Alice as Genova beautifully elaborated in the first split. But, if Alice, the master of recalling things, were to lack that quality, how was he to function in that marriage? This was ironic.As John grew apart from her, I think the void was filled by Lydiathe child Alice knew the least. Where John reckoned with her mental capabilities and loved her for that, Lydia connected with her mothers renewed emotional intelligence. Thats why I think she decided to join college after Alice had brought up the subject again. After all, she could trust her mother now. But, I was surprised whe n Lydia refused to get tested for the disease. I think there are pros and cons of sharp. I would fatality to know. So, that I can get my act together and accomplish what I quest to before I am no longer able to.It is like what Morrie said everybody knows they are going to die but, nobody believes it. I would insufficiency to at least know that I may get Alzheimers and get used to the fact before it is too late. veritable(a) though Alice knew her other children more, they played a little role in her life after her diagnosis. I think since Anna was diagnosed with the mutated gene, she was more careful and sympathetic towards her mother but I did not like her attitude. She was more concerned about herself than Alice. Tom sparingly showed up. I wonder why Genova unplowed him out of the picture most of the time. May be because he was meddling studying and because he was a guy.And Alices progression was mainly emotional. So, knowing myself and a little bit about both genders, I think that emotions are mainly a female department. Alices role had metamorphosed from a scholar to a mother. And the fastest growth of motherhood was shown through conference via emotions between a mother and a daughter. For example, in the last paragraph Lydia asked her mother to relay her feelings after witnessing Lydias acting and Alice successfully communicated in just a few words. Alice connected beautifully with the language of emotions at a time when language, which made up her whole career, began to part with her.She much remembered her mother and sister. I wonder if it was Alzheimers or she needed allay in remembering her family more. Similarly, the butterfly necklace became more important to her. It was a store of her mother but, also signified a butterflys mulct but, beautiful life. I think Alice related to the story and so did I. But, it was challenging when she had called on to God whom she had never called on to. In times of need I also feel the urge to be more spiritual. This reminded me of Morrie, who admitted that he talked to God for the first time during the later stages of his illness.Also, Alice felt the need to chide her familys graves. Reminds me of a time when I went to visit a cemetery with my friend. I had a hard time trying to think about mortality like Alice. She was not concentrating on death in the cemetery. She was intellection about John and their relationship. All in all, Genova did a great put-on of giving us a picture of what an Alzheimers patient may go through. She pointed out Alices inner thoughts and feelings and how she had matured in so many ways while keeping her personality intact. Like before, she used cognitive exercises to remember items.She was smart about the use of her blackberry and approach shot up with ideas to test her memory. She kept herself in an excellent physical condition. Which makes me want to get up and exercise every morning before I become senile. She also had a brilliant career and a family. Therefore, her initial decision to commit suicide came as a surprise. I think her family would not have approved of it. But overall, I think Alice grew in the process and others reacted accordingly. For instance, Lydia saw past the disease while John and Alices colleagues only saw what was shown to them.Therefore, I do not think Genova did umpire to what other people might be feeling and thinking. Especially, I would have liked to read about Johns perspective. Ironically, even when Dr. Davis had initially said that Alices accounts may not be too reliable, Genova kept the story going from Alices point of view. This made me biased towards Alice while not having a clear idea of what John and other people may have been going through. But at least, now I have a better understanding of Alzheimers and its manifestations.